Make 2015 Your Year of Romance

The New Years Resolution for 2015 – Its That Time Again!

I have a small poster on my wall, it reads…

What’s the point in having dreams….. if you’re not going to make them happen?

Many of us have ambitions and dreams for more Romance, either in a new relationship ... or in the Relationship we are already in ... that we never seem to act upon, there's always something that gets in the way of making a start. So here you are again, seeing out the old year ... 2014, along with its broken promises and failed, good intentions. Fresh with newly found conviction, you arrive at the New Years resolution for 2015, an annual triumph of hope over reality! Hope, that this time you will have the single mindedness to succeed, where last time you failed. So whats going to make the difference this time?

The way we think, stops us from realizing our dreams. How many people want to change their lives and believe that they cant because of responsibilities? Lack of confidence? Low self esteem, or simply that they fear change itself?

How we think and feel about ourselves is often the difference between happiness and success, or frustration and failure, therefore success and real lasting change only comes from changing the way we think. We are all products of our own thinking.

So, every thought we think about Romance has an impact on us. We respond to our negative thoughts and to our positive thoughts. If you have a history of failing to live up to your own expectations, your memories are loaded with negative experiences .. you find yourself sabotaging your chance of success even before you start.

You may dream of having the most amazing Romantic Relationship as something you are wishing and dreaming of ... and yes, you could chance across meeting someone who is your Romantic Lover! But its down to chance and you have a better chance of flying to the moon, than bumping into someone like they do in the romance books. Pinning your hopes and dreams to chance alone is admitting that you have no control over your future, but it doesnt have to be that way at all.

Making a real change to increase the Romance your life? Well thats a dream you can, make happen! And you can start right here, right now.

You don't have to put up with being ignored in your relationship, you could start planning and adding romantic things into your daily interactions. If you are single, go out and meet other single people who are looking for the same as you. Start off your relationship by doing the fun, Romantic things ... and keep them going ... daily. It takes less effort to make a relationship Romantic than trying to find a new person to share your life with.

Help is there for those who need it. Look for ideas ... we will be posting ideas on this blog for you to get inspiration!

Another challenge is that many people struggle to maintain willpower and being consistent in their Romantic endeavors. They feel that they need help and are often too embarrassed to admit to anyone that they have a problem. Now, many people may have of low motivation and low confidence and self-esteem, the best suggestion is to make things fun, keep it simple, involve the Romantic activities or surprises daily.

Your life will improve if you begin to believe in yourself and your abilities, you will feel more Romantic, more loved, as well as respected, giving you that extra boost to increase motivation, and your enthusiasm will increase noticeably. Some people say it feels like magic because it is so easy to make powerful, lasting changes.

Life is just about enjoying the moment, believing in yourself and your dreams ... even the Romantic dreams!

Having a desire to make changes is good. *** Taking action to start something is even better***. Lets assume that youve decided right now, to start making the changes in your life that you really want to increase your Romance. If you have tried before and failed, you need a support structure put into place as quickly as possible, some action steps, some friends and family to be there to talk to, to help you to maintain your resolve and to keep your thought processes focused on your goal of increasing the Romance in your life.

Life only comes once, it’s quite short and you have to appreciate what’s good in it. So try to get the most out of everything you do and begin to enjoy more Romance in your Life!

You're starting the next phase of your journey, and the future hasn’t been written yet. 

Make 2015 ... the year you make your dream of a year of Romance ... happen.