What
makes some relationships appear magical, while the daily rush of life consumes
other relationships?
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| Romantic Dates |
It
can often feel like the spark that drew you together has dimmed, but it does
not necessarily have to be like that, as long as there is a spark or a flame,
no matter how small … you can make things improve.
To
make that happen you have to take a moment and look at what you are doing in
your relationship that is working, and not working!
Just
to be aware, one of the biggest challenges that many people find in a
relationship is that they sit back and wait for the other person to take the
lead, to do things and to make it feel and be a lot better!
Why
wait?
Start
introducing some “fresh” fun and romance into your daily interactions!
1.
REFRESH
Take time to look back, refresh your memories and share what
brought you together. Especially when times are difficult, lean back and rely
on these old memories as your foundation and glue yourselves back together with
them (not literally, of course!)
2.
DATES
Keep dating each other. Even if life seems too busy, meet at
the end of the evening for something light and easy, like viewing your favorite
sitcom (record it if necessary) together or playing a game which means you sit
down with each other and connect.
3.
FUN
Couples tend to have fun on dates, then get married and too
serious. Lighten up. Plan some fun excursions, do something different, meet up
for coffee dates, choose different places to meet up.
4.
FORGET
No need to always remember the bad things that happened
during an argument. Actively forget sometimes. Be the first to apologize and
make up. Go for it!
5.
SPACE
Give each other some space. Either you trust or you don’t.
Get on with life, though/ People need time alone and time with their mates and
other friends. Be sure to give and take your fair share of space.
6.
DISAGREE
Agree that its okay to disagree on some issues, and leave it
at that. You don’t HAVE to agree on everything. And you won’t. And that’s okay.
7.
MEMORIES
Make some together. Enjoy special moments, special
anniversary dates and events. No need to be elaborate. For example, maybe you
enjoyed watching a hot air balloon race one spring day. The next year, you
might schedule time to watch it again. Make it an annual event.
So
don’t just sit back and wait for all the fun stuff to happen! Take short steps
to improve your relationships and let life’s problems magically pass by while
you hold on to your relationship.
Creating magic in a relationship takes time
and some planning … Time to get started!
If you are wanting to add some romance using Texting, here is a great FREE Report which has some ideas in it .. for both guys and gals
If you are wanting to add some romance using Texting, here is a great FREE Report which has some ideas in it .. for both guys and gals
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