Thursday, January 15, 2015

What Questions Would You Ask To Increase Intimacy? Part III




Getting to know someone at a more intimate level expands us ... Time to take it to the next Step!!

In the previous 2 blogs, Part I and Part II, we went through two series of questions to start Increasing our Intimacy with our partner or lover. You have started to get to know them better, asked some questions that may have even made them ... and you think a bit!


It is now time to look at Part III's set of questions ... to make it easier, .

Each series of questions allows you to increase your knowledge and intimacy with the other person.

Enjoy!!

We would love to hear how you go with each stage.



Part III

25. Make three true “we” statements each. For instance, “We are both in this room feeling _______.”

26. Complete this sentence: “I wish I had someone with whom I could share _______.”

27. If you were going to become a close friend with your partner, please share what would be important for him or her to know.

28. Tell your partner what you like about them; be very honest this time, saying things that you might not say to someone you’ve just met.

29. Share with your partner an embarrassing moment in your life.

30. When did you last cry in front of another person? By yourself?

31. Tell your partner something that you like about them already.

32. What, if anything, is too serious to be joked about?

33. If you were to die this evening with no opportunity to communicate with anyone, what would you most regret not having told someone? Why haven’t you told them yet?

34. Your house, containing everything you own, catches fire. After saving your loved ones and pets, you have time to safely make a final dash to save any one item. What would it be? Why?

35. Of all the people in your family, whose death would you find most disturbing? Why?

36. Share a personal problem and ask your partner’s advice on how he or she might handle it. Also, ask your partner to reflect back to you how you seem to be feeling about the problem you have chosen.

Try them out, and let us know what happens.

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