Communication In Romance

When you are in a Romantic Relationship, ask yourself ... Can you discuss anything? 

It has to be experienced, doesn’t it? 

But, let us talk of romance, because we cannot avoid discussion about it. Let those in love, decide how communication in romance happens. 

Romancing is not a science, but an art. When you talk to your beloved, you talk not only with your words, but with your eyes and your body language.

Everything takes part in communication with your sweetheart. How does one talk to one you are romancing? Most of the lovers swoon at the sight of the other person. 

How do we expect them to talk? ... Their sweetheart wants to talk and they want to talk. They both want to share everything in each other’s life. They share their dreams, they share their agonies and pains and they share their goals and failures. They share everything, because they are two bodies, but one heart.

Romance has its own flavor, a different flavor. Romance is a different emotion compared to all other emotions. It’s considerably different compared to emotions such as anger etc. They are all negative, but romance is a positive emotion or feeling. 

In romance, one ignores every fault of his/her sweetheart and only finds everything good and glorifies it. In love, the afternoon sun is as beautiful as the sunset. Such is the wonder of romance that it changes a person totally.

Coming back to communication, how does one do it in romance? 

Does one convey love every single day? 

Does one talk only of love and nothing else? ... Otherwise it may kill the romantic mood! 

Does one only dream of good things and avoid every talk of anything negative? 

What and how does one communicate while romancing? 

Yes ... it is true that most of the romantic lovers talk only of positive things and avoid everything negative. It is also true that talk is mostly about love, because they are romancing. Isn’t it? It is true that the couples dream of great things and avoid contemplating any negatives.

Traditional Romance is different ...

Do we as Romantics create a problem for ourselves? In the "traditional" understanding of  romancing there is no place for anything that may kill the mood. Romance means talking of moon, and not the sun, but you can talk of sunsets. Romance does not think about the fate of fallen flowers, but only admires the beauty of flowers smiling on the branch. Romance is different and it is great. The world already has innumerable problems, and romance is much needed to create a positive atmosphere. Romance is a dream.

Or ... Do we spin the whole traditional view on it's head ... and EMBRACE a "unique" view of Romance?

Let's EMBRACE the Romance for TODAY!

Communication of our hopes, dreams, connecting in love .... AND keeping the LOVE alive with gestures, fun, caring, clear communication and a strong sense of everyday romance.